Myron "Buddy" Letwin
May 29, 2025

MYRON "BUDDY" LETWIN: Age 93, passed away peacefully on Thursday, May 29, 2025. 

Buddy was the beloved son of the late Rose and Sam Letwin, and a man whose warmth, humor, and humanity left a mark on everyone he met. Known for his innate likability, Buddy lived by the golden rule: treat others as you would want to be treated. He never judged by title, background, or circumstance--and his kindness earned him deep respect across Pittsburgh's diverse communities. 

A devoted husband to Phyllis Letwin, his loving partner of 72 years, Buddy was a proud and devoted father to Jeffrey (Roberta), Sheri Letwin (David Berk), and Mitchell (Rhonda). He found his greatest joy in his grandchildren: Amanda Weiner (Jared of blessed memory), Ari Letwin, Andrew Filipek (Kaela), Rachel Jacoby (Michael), Ryan Letwin, and Justin Berk (Talia); and his great-grandchildren: Jonah and Zoe Weiner, Mason and Riley Jacoby, and Jackson Filipek. He is the brother of his cherished sister, Judy Weinstein (Brian) and his late brother, Larry Letwin. 

Buddy was perhaps best known in Pittsburgh as the founder of The Listening Post, a fixture in Shadyside for more than three decades. What began as a hub for records, electronics, and countercultural expression evolved into high-end audio destination--but it always remained a place where people felt welcome. Buddy's warm presence and civic spirit earned him the affectionate nickname, "The Mayor of Shadyside."

Buddy was an avid Steeler fan and became friends with many of the players from the Super Bowl teams in the 70's. In fact, many of them made sure he and Phyllis had tickets for all of the games. The Listening Post was even selected to run the music to the scoreboard. Besides being a really less than mediocre golfer after spending years practicing at Green Oaks, it was less known that he diligently maintained a daily fitness routine. 

His civic and cultural engagement ran deep. Buddy was an active supporter of Jewish causes and a contributor to the B'nai Brith, Anti-Defamation League, and United Jewish Federation.

Buddy Letwin will be remembered for his joy in life, fierce devotion to family, and unwavering belief in the dignity of all people. He will be deeply missed by his family, his friends, and the caring staff of Weinberg Terrace. 

Services at Ralph Schugar Chapel, Inc., 5509 Centre Avenue, Shadyside on Sunday, June 1, 2025 at 12 Noon. Visitation one and one half hour prior to service (10:30 AM - 12 Noon). Interment Homewood Cemetery. Contributions may be made to Weinberg Terrace, 5757 Bartlett Street, Pittsburgh, PA 15217 or a charity of donor's choice. www.schugar.com

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So sad to hear of Buddy's passing, As the manager of the Shadyside Theater in the 1970's, I had the pleasure of meeting the Letwin family, and being a neighbor of the Listening Post on Walnut Street for years, I had the pleasure of almost daily interactions with Buddy, he was a caring and generous person, he will be missed, my sincere condolences. Bill Ayoob, Virginia Beach.

By William (Bill) Ayoob - June 01, 2025

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To the Letwin, We send our deepest sympathy! Your Dad was very kind and welcoming.

By Sam & Phyllis Shapiro - May 31, 2025

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I was so very sad to learn that Buddy had passed away, having many happy memories of him as a trustworthy businessman and all around great guy. Sending our deepest condolences to the Letwin family.

By Sam and Hannah Balk (via Susie Seletz) - May 31, 2025

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To Mitchell and family We are very sorry to hear about your father Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family May his memory be a blessing

By Stuart and Simone Valen - May 31, 2025

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Dear Phyllis and family, With our deepest condolences. Buddy was a sweet and kind man who will be missed by all. Dale and Rachel Middleman

By Dale and Rachel Middleman - May 31, 2025

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Mitchell and Family We were very sorry to hear about your Father. Are thoughts and prayers are with you and your family May his Memory be a blessing

By Stuart and Simone Valen - May 31, 2025

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Buddy and Phyllis were such good friends to my husband, Rick and I, for so many years. He played golf with my husband while Phyllis and I also played golf. It is hard to imagine buddy not being around when I visit Pittsburgh. I am so glad that I did share some time with them during my last visit to Pittsburgh. How can anyone who knew Buddy ever forget him? He had such a contagious smile and he was always so neatly dressed and combed, always with a twinkle in his eyes. What an honor to have known him. I send my deepest condolences to the Letwin family and want them to know that I too, grieve in losing such a dear friend. RIP buddy.. you will be missed but not forgotten.

By Deanna Bergman - May 31, 2025

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SUCH A NICE PERSON WE SEND OUR DEEPEST SYMPATHY

By stan and Betty ELIAS - May 31, 2025

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My dearest Phyllis, It is with real regret that I reach out to you in such terrible times.Elyssa texted me the very sad news.He will be missed by so many people.I hope you will go on with your life in good health and happy memories. My deepest sympathy ..LOVE,ANITA

By Anita Richman - May 31, 2025

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You have our deepest sympathy. We loved Buddy and the rest of the family. He always gave us a smile.

By Frank George and Mary Drag - May 30, 2025

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Sorry to learn of Buddy’s death. He was very good to me when I worked at the Listening Post in the late 60s. It was a really great job because of all the new music that was coming out then. I got to hear everything including a lot of jazz which I had not been exposed to. Also that Shadyside scene was vibrant and exciting. Buddy put a lot of trust in me, a kind of goofy teenager. He was a really good boss and a nice guy. I often tell people he was the best boss I ever had. I still have most of the records that I got from there, generally in lieu of most of my paychecks. Occasionally I still play them. I think I will put on Cream, “Wheels of Fire” today in my office in honor of him. Condolences to Phyllis, Jeff, Sheri and Mitchell. It was wonderful being next door neighbors and friends growing up.

By Sam Behrend - May 30, 2025

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